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Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Sexless Marriage – A recipe for Divorce.

If you’re reading this it probably means that you are getting separated or divorced.  You are in good company as you well know.  Marriage success has the same probability as a coin toss.  I don’t mean that in any snarky way- I’ve lived the trauma- twice.

So I don’t know what I don’t know, but I do know what I do know.  Learning is what comes from making mistakes.  My education about couples comes from two failed marriages, my new relationship and blended family , my experience as a family law litigation attorney and now, my family mediation practice in Baltimore County, Maryland.

To me it appears that marriages fail most often based on "the big three" issues:  finances, children and sex.  The rest of the commonly cited reasons- division of chores ( see New York Times’ Magazine Article “Sexless but Equal”)  letting oneself “go” (i.e. weigh gain and/or inattentiveness to physical appearance) and in-law problems all add lesser non-palatable ingredients in the recipe for divorce.  

I think that these common marital problems share a symptom-  they all lead to sexual withdrawal in the marriage.   With Children comes fatigue, the sapping of nurturing energies, physical changes in the body (weight gain, hormonal changes), and new financial demands.  With financial strife comes anxiety, stress, physical changes in the body, depressive fatigue, and worse.  Irritants like in-laws and division of housework make us hostile towards our spouses.    But what they all appear to lead to is a decrease in sexual frequency. 

 "Sexlessness" for those who need a quantification has been defined as marital sex less than 10 times per year  (see Newsweek June, 2002 state http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/newsweek-cover-no-sex-please-were-married-71373437.html http://drphil.com/articles/article/372). 

Most couples pair up based on sexual attraction so explain why we so readily accept that high sexuality will be a phase and not a way of life? Am I being immature?  Are my expectations too high? If attraction is not a critical part of marriage why not resume family matchmaking as a way of making marital choices?  If we refuse to go backwards to such loveless matches, why are we resistant to the concept that sexual attraction, as the basis of love, must be monogamy's new priority?  Is the idea that marital sex is sacred in a marriage so immature? Or is it simply too hard? If so, is it harder than divorce?  Ask someone who is divorced if being divorced is less hard than marriage.  

I believe that people wear blinders and forget that  “the spark”  must be kept sparky in order to withstand the outside stress of careers, finances, in-laws, chores, body image and children.  If society reacted to a married person’s sexual avoidance with the same furious response generated by infidelity (and one often gives rise to the other) then perhaps sex in a marriage would enjoy the same open status of importance as children and finances. Does it? Be honest.

Would it be acceptable for the breadwinner to permanently slack off the bread-winning because of the distraction of a baby?   Sure the bread-winning parent is tired, less focused and perhaps forced to pitch in more to household chores.  But near withdrawal from career obligations?  Not likely.  If anything the drive to protect baby and family probably increases career drive but keeping sex alive for the same reasons does not increase sex drive.    Would it be acceptable for a parent with financial problems to simply cease efforts relating to child-rearing?  Do financial problems mean you no longer get your kids to the bus stop, supervise homework or attend soccer games?    What will it take for couples to realize that sex is not “optional” in a healthy marriage? 

Sex may be the very thing that soothes our body image problems.  Sex may provide the psychological boost that helps us perform well at work or instill a personal confidence that shines through in an interview. Sex may be the very thing that saves our children from becoming children of divorce!  And so, why the societal acceptance of sexual laziness?  Why is sex in marriage simply not the first commandment of marriage from a societal viewpoint? Is it a societal defensiveness born out of shared guilt on a problem way too many couples share?  

In short where is the outrage for sexlessness- the scourge of monogamy?  Does it help to excuse it away with the numerous available excuses?  Should we just lower our sexual expectations and more importantly, can we? 

I see so many separating or divorcing couples who have financial success, their children are successful, they have housekeepers and  they love their extended families.  They have lovely homes (and vacation homes) a cars and boats.    When I see those couples I am perplexed by  the “what was missing” issue.  The guilty party initiating the divorce invariably tries to let it slip out  at the first opportunity.  Often when I ask how long have you been separated, or are you separated, out comes the emotional leaks: “What does ‘separated’ mean?  We have been in separate bedrooms for years.”    Often (but not always) the party having an affair hints of sexlessness. The reaction of the spurned party is usually dismissiveness over the disclosure,  as if sexlessness, when everything else is “fine” cannot possibly justify an affair.  But does it?  If it is a direct culprit why doesn't it? Do you know sexual refusal can be considered "constructive desertion" as a grounds for divorce in Maryland?  I would bet that the friends and family of that couple would emotionally side against the adultering party.  The spouse donning the Scarlet Letter is rarely sympathetic and the "victim" is not culpable.   Do we engage in a collective societal rationalization that is killing many otherwise happy marriages including the divorcing couples and the ones who stay married? 

If you are reading this blog you are likely separating or divorcing, but this does not mean this issue is dead for you. Quite the opposite, you have a rare opportunity for a fresh start.  Take it from me (and most divorced people) there is romance after divorce, and if you can’t avoid the unknown mistakes you may make, can you avoid the one you have already made?

My imperfect solution?  Prioritize sex in a marriage from the onset. Put the "having sex" back into "sexy."  Trust that sexual gratification trumps  the perceived revulsion that  few extra pounds might engender, especially with a few candles, a glass of wine and music (and not tv) playing in the background.   Give it the same weight you would give children’s needs and financial issues.   Make it as important and at least as often as taking out the trash or doing the laundry.  Give it the same intensity as making sure your children’s homework is done.    If you workout more often than you have sex then you might not be making enough of an effort.  If you attend more lacrosse games then sex games with your spouse, you might reconsider.  If you travel more for business each month than you have sex, again, problematic.  If you initiated sex after every sports event you watched, how often would you be having sex.  If you got divorced, would you be looking for someone who enjoyed watching sports with you or someone you were sexually attracted to?  

Would you go a day without a hug, kiss or “I love you” for your child?  Have you gone a month without watching 30 minutes of television or surfing the net or blabbing on the phone?  One week? One day? I don’t think so.  How much of a time commitment are we really talking about here? 

 A mathematical word problem:  If a couple has 30 minutes of sex 3 nights a week (I think most couples would consider this a healthy sex life) what percentage of that couples' week would they be devoting to physical intimacy in their marriage?  Hint: [(30 minutes x 3 = 1.5 hours) divided by (24 hours x 7 days = 168 hours) = .0089%.  Less than 1% for the sexually active couples.   

Hence my outrage and here's why:   If marital sexual health protects marriage and  your children from become children of divorce, why is this the one area of parenting you are willing to forego?  I'm talking to you Mr. and Mrs. Helicopter.   If financial health protects your marriage and your children, what do you think dividing one household into two households will do for your accumulation of wealth?   I'm talking to you Mr. and Mrs. Joneses. 


I have many, many  suggestions about keeping sex alive.   But that is a different blog. First you have to accept the truth of this premise and let it motivate your relationship physical intimacy. The first order of business, now that you will most likely be embarking on new relationships (and you are statistically likely to do so) is to make sexual attraction a key component in your choice of relationship (people who marry for resources and security start a marriage with 3 strikes against them for marital bliss IMHO).  If you walk down the aisle with that new person, walk with the swagger or stagger that only comes from good and frequent sex.  Enter that relationship and marriage with the determination to keep the physical intimacy alive and well.    Sex in a marriage cannot be last thing on your “to do” list.   It should be first, the rule and not the exception.   Sex in a marriage is like water to a living creature.   Sex in a marriage is sacred.   

30 comments:

  1. Hitting. Every. Nail. On. The. Head. I am currently in a sexless marriage (less than 10 times per year) where sex has just about come to a complete halt. I'm not at the point of separation, divorce, or an affair yet, but I feel it is eminent if something doesn't change. The sad reality is I could ask my husband to read this and it probably wouldn't change a thing. Maybe I'm wrong. Once can hope, right? Excellent, excellent post.

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  2. This is a great article. I am so glad someone is bringing light on these myths. I wholeheartedly believe that as Christians we can have better intimacy and fun in our marriages than anyone else. Thanks for this post! sexual intimacy problems in marriage

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  14. Hello to every one out there, I'm here to shear my unexpected miracle that has happen to me through the help of Dr. Zaba I was happily married and we had two kids, we lived together as one because we both loved each other but before I knew it, my husband started acting funny and cheating on me, later on, he told me that he cannot continue with me so that was how he left me and my two kids without noting but there was nothing i could do to stop him or bring him back to me. I work so had to pay for our bills and other responsibility for good three years. I cry all day and night because I didn't know what to do to have my husband back to me until this faithful day I read the post from one Mrs Victoria testifying how the great spell caster helped her to get her ex back. I just wanted to try my luck because I never believe it will work but to my greatest surprise, am singing a new song i contacted the great spell caster and he told me not to worry because once he finish casting the spell, that I will get back my husband . The unbelievable happened on Sunday when I got a call and I was surprise to hear my husband voice apologizing to me that he's so sorry for his Wrong did and telling me he's back home again and we are happily united again. wow!!! I really appreciate your good works great Dr. Zaba I'll always acknowledge your "FABULOUS WORKS" and there's noting I could say than to tell the world about you. So if any one is out here seeing this post and you have similar issue like this, worry no more Dr. Zaba is there for you, he can also offer any types of help like Reuniting of marriage and relationship, Curing of genital herpes and all types of Diseases, Court Cases, Pregnancy Spell, Spiritual protection and lot's more. You can contact him on Zaba24hoursspell@yahoo.com or call +2347087462033 Reach him through his Web http://zaba24hoursspell.wixsite.com/zabaspell

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  15. What a wonderful spell caster i have ever meet I almost lost my life when my lover of 6 years left to be with another woman. I cried and sober every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl called Clara and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy man.For what you have done for me, i will not stop sharing your good name to people out there for the good work you done for me. I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back, it is ideal i published this on a local newspaper for others to brings more customers to him, he worth more of this and his reward are sure. thanks and visit him on [driraborspellcaster@gmail.com] OR call him direct on +13019098775 is the only answer to your problems

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  16. GET YOUR EX WIFE, EX GIRLFRIEND, EX BOYFRIEND AND SOLVE ALL TYPE OF PROBLEM THROUGH COVENANTSOLUTIONTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM. My name is Enoch Davies
    .my wife and I got married 6 years ago and we were so much in love with each other, we have 2 kids(josh and rebecca). One day my wife came back home from her friends place and she told me that she wants us to file for a divorce that she's no longer interested in our marriage, i was surprise and everything seem to me like a joke. after then i tried all my best to get her back but there was no way. but to no avail, my heart was broken, i wondered whats happening .i was on facebook when i saw a post on how Dr Ewan helped a lady to bring back her lost husband. i was scared but because i love my wife so much and I am ready to do anything to bring her back. I decided to give it a try by contacting him via email:covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com, So when i contacted him i narrated everything to him and he said my case is not a serious one that my husband will come back to me within 18 hours if i believe in his power.he told me to do some things to do which i did before 18 hours, my wife called me on phone and was crying for forgiveness. right now we are now a new branded family with more happiness, we are even going on vacation on xmas. please if any one of you out there is passing through same issue in your marriage, relationship issues contact Dr Ewan today or call or add him on whatsapp on +234905735398 or check out his webpage http://allwomenstalk.com/p/58034af4f725a97d108b4569. contact him today on covenantsolutiontemple@gmail.com now.
    . I will keep on sharing the good news about this. Thanks Dr.

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  17. I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR. MARVIN for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loose my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 4 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR. MARVIN released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how love much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR. MARVIN for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the marvinlovespell011@gmail.com Are you undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. that is his email address marvinlovespell011@gmail.com or you call him +2349059897314

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  18. I’ve had a couple of readings with Dr. Todd and he amazes me every time. The very first one I had was last year and I was really nervous but Todd called at the exact time as the appt down to the minute and he was just so friendly. He picked up right away what was going on in my life without me asking a single question. He picked up initials of the people involved!! I’ve never had anyone do that before and I’ve been to my share of psychics! manifestspellcast@gmail.com doesn’t just tell you what you want to hear, he tells you the truth!! I was very amazed with his accuracy!! When I got off the phone my hands were shaking because I was in shock! My first experience was so well that I came back to Dr. Todd again for another reading recently when things in my life weren’t so well! He once again picked up on things so well and described the people and situation! He’s going to help me get my life back the way I want. I really trust him and his spirits! I know it’s real and I know I’ll be back to leave another testimonial on his wonderful work and to tell you all my happy results because I know I’ll have them.

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  19. BEST LOVE SPELL TO GET BACK YOUR EX: URGENT LOVE SPELL CHECK ON DR. TRUST WEB SITE NOW
    https://ultimatespellcast3.wixsite.com/dr-trust

    My Husband left me and my kids, i was passing though pains, sorrow, heart broke, going crazy,but this is how i restored happiness back in my life by getting my husband back. today with great joy and happiness. I came across a website that suggested that Dr Trust can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he did a spell for me. Two days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. In my heart i want to appreciate Dr Trust for bringing back my lost husband within 48hours after the spell was cast by him. My husband is back to us since Dr. Trust did the love spell. I am so happy that my Ex husband is back again. Once again thank you Dr. Trust, You are truly a great man. I and my family are living together happily again.. He is true to his word and he is here to help mankind. he is the realest of all spell caster online. he is Dr Trust. You can reach him on his email address or website for any help you may need.

    Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com
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    Call him +2348156885231

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  20. BEST LOVE SPELL TO GET BACK YOUR EX: URGENT LOVE SPELL CHECK ON DR. TRUST WEB SITE NOW
    https://ultimatespellcast3.wixsite.com/dr-trust

    My Husband left me and my kids, i was passing though pains, sorrow, heart broke, going crazy,but this is how i restored happiness back in my life by getting my husband back. today with great joy and happiness. I came across a website that suggested that Dr Trust can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he did a spell for me. Two days later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. In my heart i want to appreciate Dr Trust for bringing back my lost husband within 48hours after the spell was cast by him. My husband is back to us since Dr. Trust did the love spell. I am so happy that my Ex husband is back again. Once again thank you Dr. Trust, You are truly a great man. I and my family are living together happily again.. He is true to his word and he is here to help mankind. he is the realest of all spell caster online. he is Dr Trust. You can reach him on his email address or website for any help you may need.

    Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com
    Web site: https://ultimatespellcast3.wixsite.com/dr-trust
    Call him +2348156885231

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  21. Hello Every body
    Thank you thank you Dr iayaryi for the good work you just did in my life ,
    i was married to my husband for two years and we were living together happily and we both love each other for this two year not until one bad evening when i came back from work late due to scares of transportation and he started queering and he said he does not trust me any more and he can continue with this marriage any more and he drove me away from his house unknowingly to him that i was carrying his two month old baby inside me i tried informing he but he won,t listen to me any more i thought i will never get him back again and i loved him so much and i promise not to rest until am able to get him back to my life so i began to look for a solution and help to get him back this was because i do not want to give birth to a fatherless child so one afternoon as i was browsing on my computer i came across a testimony shared by miss Rachael from UK how she got his ex husband back with the help of Dr iayaryi of (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) so i decided to give him a try and to my best surprise the spell this man cast on my husband work just within two days i contacted him . and today am happily living with my husband and a bouncing baby boy , with all this help rendered to me through this Dr iayaryi OF (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com )i will always thank him forever and testify his goodness in my life for other,s to hear an see , once again thank you DR for bringing back my family And also Reach him on WhatsApp Number: +2349057915709 Thanks Dr. Iyaryi

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  22. Life is good when you have your love ones around you, I am saying this because when i had issues with my lover i never seen life as a good thing but thanks to DR. OGUDUGU OF OGUDUGU SOLUTION TEMPLE, for helping me to cast a spell that brought my lover back to me within the space of 48hours. My husband left me for another woman after 7YEARS of marriage,but DR.OGUDUGU help me cast a spell that brought him back to me within 48hours. I am not going to tell you more details about myself rather i will only advise those who are having issues in there relationship or marriages to contact DR.OGUDUGU SOLUTION TEMPLE through these details via; (GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM Website: http://greatdrogudugusolutiontemple.webs.com/) or call him on WHATSAPP: +2348055304321?


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  23. Hello,am JANE from UK i want to thank DR OKO ( solutionhome@outlook.com )for what he has done for me in my life,After my lover left me for over 6MONTHS without no notice i was so frustrated and confused i never knew what to do until i got in contact with my best friend in Canada by name Whitney,After she told me the great deeds of DR OKO how people talk good about him on radio stations and internet so she gave me the contact in contacting DR OKO,which i did. i called DR OKO and told him how my lover left me for over 6MONTHS,He told me just to be happy that i will have him back to my arms that its only a FAITH AND TRUST ,i was like is this real mean while i had fate in DR OKO that he would bring back my lover, to my surprise after 24hours i got a call from a man who has left me for over 6MONTHS begging me for forgiveness,Which i did,And now we are together and he love’s me more than anything on this earth and cant do with seeing me a day am so happy and am bringing this great news to the great people of UK and USA,That there is a man who can bring back happiness to their life's am happy today with the one i love. please you can contact DR OKO for help on his private mail: SOLUTIONHOME@OUTLOOK.COM

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